You need to start tanning
So if God isn’t a judgy kind of entity, and when you die you really are 100% welcome in heaven, why do so many souls end up “paying for their sins” when they die? Surely if there was a big heaven this way arrow you’d follow it and we’d get 100% of the people to the good place.
Think of the big heaven this way path as the sun and you hate sunlight. Unless you are very used to spending all day out in the sun, you’ll look for shade. So you need to start tanning to get yourself used to that path of light. Hiding is wearing all black. Hiding is purposely over scheduling yourself so you have an excuse to ignore exercise or diet. Hiding is screens vs. people. If you are used to darkness you’ll flow with darkness. It’s like electromagnetics +/- flow, you vote with your charge. Give yourself an honest accesment are you team darkness or team pure white light?
But you’ve lost me, I thought God loved me and all is forgiven why am I going to hell again?
Think of it this way, you stepped into a simulator so emersive, the transition in leaving that simulation is a big tramatic event in your life. And during that process you are so freakin’ disoriented you don’t remember who you are yet. It can take a little time to remember. So don’t worry, anyone following through the gates of hell you are not trapped there. You simply oriented yourself, and fly on out of there to light.
But, if you could avoid being dragged in through those gates in the first place? Just charge yourself positive. That means crazy, competitive levels of exercise. Like rubbing your slippers on the carpet to charge them up, you have to sweat to change your whole human body.
It also means putting in what you consider to be nutricious day in day out. There is no one special correct diet, but you can’t have any shadows about being ashamed about any specific food you are still eating.
And it means getting Vitamin D from the sun while doing the strenuous exercise.
After that, be kind to people, don’t judge anyone else, love the people stuck with you and you are literally doing everything you can to charge positive.
So the breakdown is more like 10% go directly to heaven. 80% go through gates of hell but orient and go to heaven and 10% get lost and stay in hell because they like darkness.